Allah Almighty has placed virtues and abilities in every human being. There must be some kind of perfection and goodness in everyone. Now it is the responsibility of human beings to find it, to strive for it and to be self-confident. And it is also a fact that every person in the world He wants to be a successful person in the future.In the same way, we want our children to be great leaders. It is a natural thing that everyone desires and desires these things but this status and honor and dignity is given to those who believe in destiny and work hard for it. Builds self-confidence; Because the law of nature is that if you have any ability, it cannot last long. Our talent soon becomes visible to the people around us, not necessarily consciously, but people still cannot live without being influenced by the talent of others.
If you want your children to have a better future and to be successful and good people in our society, we need to the follow ten principles:
1: Build self-confidence
Self-confidence is a symbol of success and the first step to prosperity. Dreaming of the destination without self-confidence and hoping to achieve the goal is tantamount to dreaming like a madman.
2: Testing abilities
It is important to test the abilities of children to find out if they have any mental or other illness or if they are experiencing psychological or social problems.
3: Testing passion
Highlight the child's hobbies and abilities Whether it's a sport or an art form, encouraging children to take an interest in a hobby from an early age can be useful for them in the future. But at the same time, nothing should be forced on them.
4: Mental and psychological needs
You should Understand your child's mental and psychological needs,. Children ask a lot of questions before school starts and many times it is possible that your patience will be overwhelmed while answering them but it is important for their development.
5: Consultation with the teacher and mentor
Talk to teachers about your child's needs. Intelligent children often need more difficult questions to increase their mental development and for this they need more help. It is important to consult with teachers about this.
6: Don't be afraid of mistakes
Mistakes and failures are the key to success in the future and they are also important for learning, don't panic. Mistakes should be taken as an opportunity. So that children can learn from them and perform better in the future.
7: Punctuality
Those who value time, then time values them too; Because every moment of life is measured in the threshold of time, no moment can come back. In the same way, this golden age of childhood will never come back. If we make the best use of our children's time, our children will move towards success.
8: Independent of temperament
Persistence is a precious asset to you and your children that will never let you down, so schedule a homework and skills development for yourself and your children. If you do not do this, the child's mental abilities may be paralyzed during the exact exams and you may suffer from depression and frustration along with the child. So never forget consistency and punctuality.
9: Encouraging
It is very important for children that their efforts to achieve anything should be appreciated rather than the actual result. What is special about the learning process of children is that they learn from the reaction of their parents, so they should be encouraged to do every good deed. And the name of the motivator for success.So parents need to encourage their children and convince them.
10: Determining the Real Goal
Let us trained our children in such a way that their heart, mind, consciousness and inner being realize the difference between this insignificant goal and the great goal and reconsider the goals of life. Subject your short-lived worldly goal to the real goal, and focus on the eternal life that will never end. Redefine your accomplishments, your goals, and your goals in the light of the guidelines in the book of guidance.